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I suspect few people in the world have interacted with more individuals who lost bitcoin than I have.

I answered support tickets for a non-custodial web wallet that, at the time, was the most popular in the world.

I'm talking about 100,000+ tickets over five years, many from users who lost access to their funds. Not just tiny amounts, mind you.

Sometimes hundreds of bitcoin.

My inability to help them still weighs on me.

We added warnings and info about the importance of backups. It's not that I could have done more. The nature of the old Blockchain(.)info wallet made that impossible.

The bottom line is personal responsibility demands extraordinary effort, and not everyone is up for the challenge.

Lost password? Sorry, I can't help.

Lost seed phrase? Sorry, I can't help.

Funds stolen by a phishing site? *Sigh*

What troubles me most isn't the sadness I felt from doing this daily for so many years. No, eventually you grow numb to it.

That's what truly hurt.

I imagine this is a lesser version of what people in the medical field have to do to cope with their jobs - learning to stop caring so much.

It takes a toll on your humanity if you live this way for too long.

I could have stayed in that job. Stacked more sats. It made sense, financially. I'd have a lot more bitcoin today if I did.

Instead, I left, choosing to be with my family and focus on self improvement.

Anyone who has worked during the early years of a startup will understand how incredibly burnt out you are once you finally step away. It took me years to push through that.

But I still think about those users.

The ones who made all the mistakes of the past that you, the bitcoiners of today, would learn from.

Almost seven years have passed since I left, and I'm no longer numb to their pain. I feel sadness for them again.

And I'm grateful for that.


I hope you all have a Merry Christmas, and take some time to reflect on the things that truly matter in this life. 🧡✌️
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𝕞ptf · 88w
Self responsibility is not an easy path, but it is always worth it.
nostrich · 88w
Feel ya on this one. I worked support for a password manager where the user was fully responsible for their backup key. Not fully comparable to losing generational wealth, but many many situations where people lost access to pretty much every single account they ever owned, along with other very i...
Klems ⚡️ · 88w
I did lost 10 BTC + on cryptsy. Shit happens, fuckin Paul Vernon ... My worst mistake was to stop mining from 2014 to 2016 afterwards. I am in peace with that now. I Did setup several enigmas to give away Bitcoins since then. The latest one (based on movie screenshots) is ongoing for two years now ...
johnny · 88w
And will these things still happen? There is a recent case of considerable loss of #bitcoin ?
Mel · 88w
Merry Christmas to you and the fam nostr:npub1qex7yjtuucs6ac49kjujdgytrjsphn5a4pdscu2w3qlprym4zsxqfz82qk !
lex · 86w
Any tips on what to do / what not to do