well, your observation about service staff totally makes sense, and for those whose job tends to mean zero getting hit on that gives me an edge

i've worked with cleaning ladies (i was a cleaner), and i like them, hard nosed, practical women, just never occurred to me to poke at this one if it appears, other similar back-of-house type roles

yeah the ones that do customer service have an aura of aloofness that is obviously part of their attempt to not get hit on so much makes total sense