To complain is easy. To do something about it takes a lot of patience, wisdom and focus.

I have interacted with some people offline who complain about their life, how difficult to find a job or how life happened to them!
But when I start to ask about what are they doing to improve or lessen the burden with the available resources they have, they make so much mental gymnastics.

You can b*tch around about life. But you can only do what you can control.
When you stop blaming your circumstance on others, you will be surprised that no one is holding you back but YOU. And only then you can see(open your eyes) more opportunities you thought you couldn't have.

You can stay a victim of your circumstance or start working on how to live life worthy of you.

Either way, you are right.

Good morning #nostr and you, my beautiful soul. ☺️🫂

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My only concern is when the leaves go brown... I wonder if it can still hold items inside? 😬🤔

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Do you think you are immune because you believe you are intelligent or you are in a happy committed relationship?

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Push politely and elloquently without losing your sh*t.

Some people do not get the cue and keep pushing your boundaries.
It is a test how far you can hold it in.
Avoidance perhaps your best shot to avoid confrontation.
But some people will continue to test your limits.
If this is you, standing your ground and confront people are your way forward.
Communicate your boundaries politely.
You do not always have to agree and put up with their temper.
Push politely and elloquently without losing your sh*t.
It takes a lot of practice and preparation.

So before you do that, practice privately and prepare for possible come back.
Importantly, you can watch and say less.
Let them talk themselves out.
The less you talk, the better.
Remember, you are responsible for your emotions and not theirs.
So keep it together.
Yes, you will be dreaded doing this at the start.
You will be boiling inside.
But that is also your ego trying to drive you to respond.
Don't give in to the impulses.
And it gets better the more you practice.

My dear reader, you got this! 💪

Take care you — beautiful soul. ☺️🫂

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💯 If you are not growing with the people around, you are in the wrong circle.
To highlight, positive energy, frictionless and dramaless.
That's when you know you are home.
You can be challenged without the arrogance, the guilt tripping that you owe them.
Right people genuinely want to see you succeed.
They are out there but you need to make the effort to filter out the noise to find them.

Good morning #nostr tribe. ☺️🫂
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