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Hello!

:person_info: I'm Lia / Lianna, the owner and sole user of this little Fedi instance.

:gaming: I have a lot of different and constantly shifting hobbies: music, vintage tech, conlanging, linux, art,
webcrafting and the web revival, writing, reading, bicycling and much more. It always depends on my current fixations.

:noted: Professionally, I am a freelancer mainly in the video game industry.

:accessibility: I'm autistic, queer and I have ADHD (medicated). My writing style sometimes might come across as cold or boring, but that's not how I mean it :( I'm quite silly actually

:dictionary: Bilingual account that posts in German and English.

๐Ÿต I moderate a semi-public cosy little Matrix space for queer & nerdy people chatting, finding friends and talking about their special interests! Ping me with your Matrix handle if you're interested. ๐Ÿต

Relays (1)
  • wss://relay.ditto.pub โ€“ read & write

Recent Notes

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oh look a new trans community! i wonder if i can find some cool new people to potentially befriend

*looks inside*

[misogynistic meme]
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[fetishising "meme"]
[outright loli]
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"trans women be like: [stereotypical 4chan male incel trait]"
[thinly veiled porn/hypersexual meme]
[male nerd hobby post with an anime child meme]
"all trans women when [niche fetish]"
[actually kinda funny post]
[misogynistic meme]
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The older I get, the more I feel like a central axis of maturity is "generalising your own experience to be universal" versus "being aware that unfamiliar, new-to-me experiences exist".

Look out for it a bit if you will. "Sure bro, nobody does that, you're ridiculous" versus "over the years I have been surprised over and over by people with experiences I thought impossible, so I will tentatively believe your story".
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My US American friend โ€“ who I helped flee to Germany earlier this year โ€“ is ostensibly fascinated by the concept of bottle return deposits (#Pfand).

She is planning to hook up in the room with the bottle return machines to, quote, "make it even stickier". I am scared of Americans, y'all.