Noshole
· 3w
That’s the thing. I think I have to be that other person people in the family can trust to help because there’s nobody else that probably would
Maybe I'm projecting, but a family friend who spent a number of years living on a motorcycle once told me that if you're not an adult by the time you're 30, you never have to be. When I turned 30 I was very proud of having strategically excised a number of responsibilities that I'd previously naively taken on and was excited about the prospect of a relatively carefree life. But much more recently, I keep being reminded of the fact that one of the few things that I find to be more off-putting than stereotypical adulthood, is failing to be an adult when that's exactly what the situation calls for. I don't know exactly what my point is, but if you're finding the prospect of being self-sufficient or self-reliant to be stressful or daunting, you're definitely not alone.