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Antoni Salvatore
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Advice and strategies based on Old-School Philosophy.

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The greatest secret to truly unforgettable sex isn’t technique or duration.

It’s having someone who desires you with hunger. That raw, almost animal lust, where the person can barely hold themselves back.
Everything else like affection, communication, and equality is great, but without that primitive spark, it turns into lukewarm, dull sex.

As Nelson Rodrigues used to say: “Desire is the only truth of the human being.”

Most people settle for crumbs of desire and pretend it’s enough. That’s why you shouldn’t choose someone just because they’re affectionate and feel little lust. Seek out, too, the one who awakens in you passion, chemistry, and that nearly irresistible urge.
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There are two kinds of men in life.

1. Men who play not to lose.

They cling to everything.

The mediocre job.
The mediocre relationship.
The mediocre life.

They are afraid of losing what they have because they don’t believe they could build it all again.

2. Men who play to win.

They’ve lost before.

Money.
Women.
Opportunities.
Status.

Life has already tested them, and they survived.

Because of that, they know something the first group doesn’t:

They can always start over.

The question that defines your future is simple:

“If everything disappeared tomorrow, could I earn it all back again?”

If your answer is yes:

You move differently.

You take risks.
You speak your mind.
You walk away when necessary.

You don’t become attached to outcomes because you trust your ability to create new ones.

If your answer is no:

You become defensive.

Fearful.
Anxious.
Drained.

You spend your life protecting what you have instead of building what you truly want.

The highest form of confidence is not believing you’ll never lose.

It’s knowing you’ll be okay even if you do.

Build that man.

Everything else will follow.
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Ascolta bene, amico mio!

Some men display friends like medals on their lapels—many of them, yet lifeless. Others surround themselves with a large family: a devoted wife, attentive brothers and cousins, flattering nephews, all ready to celebrate birthdays, but few willing to face the world over an injustice done to their own blood.

Blessed, then, is the one who finds, among so many familiar faces, even a single person willing to rise against an offense committed against him.
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“There is nothing like the wrath of a man who never wished to be violent.” — Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn https://blossom.primal.net/f34d8f46cce7b485b22b96b22714a828a59f47143f7a6500dee23f52b6d452d1.m...
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Do you know why a dam collapses?

“Negligence,” “lack of maintenance” — that’s what many would say. And they would be right.

But what about when a good person builds a dam against the reservoir of his own hatred?

To save himself? That’s not our greatest concern. We are willing to protect everyone around us from the possible flood of that wrath. We have seen before how it happens. We know it isn’t pretty. We use that very fury as energy. We keep everything in place. It is an advantage. So when something like this happens, you know it was not due to a lack of care — at least not on our part.

Usually, a dam does not break in the middle; it is in the least visible area that everything happens. Pressure deepens, storms raise the volume, and the years gnaw at the structure through erosion. The moment the internal mass exerts its final force against the limit of tolerance, violence spills outward, carrying everything in front of it into collapse.

Does that sound familiar?

We are all born evil. The just man builds barriers to ration his strength out of goodness. Yet the same man who learned when it is fitting to place a leash on his hatred also knows the exact moment to release it, directing hell toward those who were not content with heaven.
Antoni Salvatore · 19w
Do you know why a dam collapses? “Negligence,” “lack of maintenance” — that’s what many would say. And they would be right. But what about when a good person builds a dam against the reservoir of his own hatred? To save himself? That’s not our greatest concern. We are willing to pro...
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Roman mythology tells that one day a miser and an envious man went to the god Jupiter to ask him to grant their wishes…

Jupiter, wanting to teach them a lesson, agreed — on the condition that whatever one of them asked for would be given to the other in double.

The miser, who wished for a room full of gold, received it, but became bitter when he saw that his companion had been given twice as much gold.

Seeing what had happened, the envious man then wished that one of his eyes would be pierced, so that the miser would become blind in both.

📌 Envy is such a sordid poison that a man is willing to inflict suffering upon himself, as long as the other suffers more. Instead of seeking to prosper, he prefers to level the world through ruin, making everyone equal in misery.
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Never show when you are desperate.

Stay calm even when you are going through difficult moments.

Understand that it is simply your time to suffer—

just like every other man before you.
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The most important skill you can develop is the ability to recover quickly.

Bad conversation? Move on.
Bad day? Start again tomorrow.
Missed a workout? Train the next day.
Bad decision? Learn from the mistake and adjust.

You can’t control what happens to you, but you can control how long you allow it to affect you. 💪
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