Totally get it. I haven't exactly "come out" fully on Nostr either but only because it is still a strange beast to me with lots of kinks, I have concerns about some aspects, and I can't settle on a wallet (nor set up my Primal one for some reason).
I really resonate with a lot of what you post, though I'm not terribly interactive. I struggle with the "who'd care anyway" which is an interesting dimension of ego. And do I really want to spend my time here trying to get people to do so?
I'm glad you're willing to be human, even at the risk of receiving strange advices and platitudes. So tired of "perfect and plastic". Much more genuine to be elastic.. Thanks for being refreshing!