I personally agree with helen and Noshole 💯🫂
This is just my opinion, this is not fact and if you disagree with me, that’s great! Cos this is only true for me, but if it makes sense for you then that’s great too! - I feel if you meet the right person for you, you’ll always be in love with their mind body and soul and want to grow up together and keep getting to know new versions of them ❤️🔥 and continue to lust after them too. That love and attraction will grow. That obsession will always be there, even if it’s quiet at times. You use any excuse to talk about them with your friends and you can’t help but smile when you think about them.
I’m not talking about that exciting at first but then anxiety inducing toxic love that leaves you bitter either, not all love is good love and love isn’t meant to make you feel that way. Sometimes it’s lessons. And im definitely not talking about just lust, which is often confused for love I feel cos it can take a minute to fade, but once that initial excitement is gone it’s just empty and you realise you have no real connection, except maybe friendship.
I’m talking about the type of love that feels peaceful like a home you’ve always wanted, where even though there will be times of not much excitement at all, where things will get busy for you both individually and effort on both sides is needed, no matter how much time passes you check your partner out in awe and think ‘damn, i can’t believe you love me the way i love you’ wanting to high five 13 year old you right now cos you’re one lucky bastard. The best friend you can’t keep your hands off of.
For me it was all rather confusing at first, especially if like me, you didn’t find your person straight away, but then once i did i felt like Rocky at the top of the steps to the Philadelphia Museum of Art.
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