Who's need? ("need to use nostr") - yours or theirs?
Seems the builders/influencers/bloodsuckers are the ones heralding nostr as the great saviour, "needed" by the masses.
Truth is you will never "save" anyone who does not want to be saved.
The masses (as you say) don't give a fuck about decentralisation or privacy - they just want to be amused (distracted).
Agree with
@JackTheMimic here - WTF is winning? If a relative few find their way here and benefit (and thats a whole topic in itself as nostr is a very heavy & toxic environment with a fair number of charlatans & outright liars) then its good, right? Its never gonna be high numbers, as to the masses it will always be a worse version of FB, Twitter, etc
Giving it prettier icons doesn't move the needle at all.
Human nature has some very troublesome attributes such as tribalism, ego, status, hierarchy & all social media amplifies this. Nostr is no different - if anything its worse because its such a one dimensional echo chamber - you are never going to get a well balanced argument so you can make your own mind up in such an environment.
If you truly believe in freedom, people can & should do what they believe in; they are not (in all cases at least) "clueless" or "idiots" that need fixing. You can debate intelligently & reason with people but they will not always agree or change their minds to agree with you, nor should they necessarily.
All truth is subjective (apart from a very few select truths that you will never find in society or looking outwards); once you realise this, you see how stupid it is when people argue that their subjective truth is better than someone else's. This is one of the biggest problems with humans as so much hatred comes from this & so many lives lost.
A good start would be a platform for enriching, well rounded conversations that welcome everyone.