Wat? Amethyst should be pulling your relay setup from your relay lists saved on relays. Uninstalling shouldn't affect that, unless your relay lists could no longer be found.

Haven has outbox (others can read your notes), public inbox inbox (others can write replies to your notes), private relay (just for you), and DM inbox (others can send you dms), as well as a blossom media server (you host media for others to see). All of these require the ability for your relay to be reachable by other users. How has Nostr Vault implemented that, and if it hasn't, what is the point of running a full haven relay, when you could just run a personal archival relay like Citrine?

It's not quite that simple. You seem to be advising concerning relays in general, while @Joyce Dawn is asking why her DMs aren't working. If she is sending/receiving DMs with those who use NIP-04 DMs, then it should work fine with her ordinary relays, but many clients have upgraded to NIP-17 DMs, which use a completely separate relay list (kind 10050) and it does not appear that @Joyce Dawn has a 10050 set up.

From her screenshot, it looks like she is using Damus, which does not support the NIP-17 DMs, and therefore does not have a way to set up DM relays separately from the user's standard relays. I believe that when you add a standard relay on Damus, it also automatically treats it as both read and write, which may not be what the user wants.

Unfortunately, there are a wide variety of reasons your DMs aren't working. It may take a bot to diagnose before a solution can be suggested.

Could be a relay issue. Could be a client issue. Could be that those you are trying to DM can't see the type of DM you are sending in the client they use.

Exactly. We are united to Christ, but I would never couch that in terms of "oneness with God," nor would any Bible-believing Christian I know.

Beginning to believe this guy is just an outright heretic.

That's an interesting way of framing it. Can you define for me what exactly you mean by "oneness with God"?

Nah, Wisp bases it on whether you have posted any events (including reactions) recently. So @Contra⚡️ can see I am "online" even though I am using Jumble and Coracle right now.

I'll shoot it to you via Primal. Check there.