The tao that can be stated is not the True Eternal Tao
Cataphasis - positive descriptions, what *it is*
Apophasis - negative descriptions, what *it is not*
Contradictions from within a system may be resolved by stepping outside the system.
We cannot step outside our system, so we must accept the contradictions. Through recognizing tension within conflicting truths, new understanding is possible to be formed - the *coincidentia oppositorum*. Ontologically, new things are birthed through tension in any case. So what is apparently a contradiction my just be a tension from within our current understanding.
That's sort of the starting frame I use to orient myself.