That's my point. If the server has your XPUB and it is seized then the govt has now your XPUB.

You should believe what your brain tells you. In this case, you can see that your Dojo server stores your xpubs and addresses and that's because it makes sense to do so. The same applies to the Samourai server because it had to manage a much higher user base and that makes caching even more important.

Consolidation is a mental illness.

Can it keep the same conversation in desktop and mobile?

Can I select the relays?

There is a joke that says:

Europeans don’t have children because they can’t afford to support them. Muslims have many children because Europeans support them.

Unfortunately just when we believed the media was losing power, they show us all how wrong we were.

No, it doesn't look like that, it's just that the project is under attack by a group of zealots who invest time in spreading FUD.

However, look at the numbers. Wasabi is doing better and better despite those idiotic efforts.

No

Wasabi is open source and it is developed and discussed in the open, that's why you see issues, PRs and discussions. Yes, it had, has and will have bugs. Those that are exploitable are called vulnerabilities and if you pick any random bitcoin wallet you will see that the latest releases are full of bug fixes/vuln fixes. Wasabi is not the exception.