can only speak for myself, but a recent/last? amethyst problem made this quite unusable, feed takes forever to load (when it loads), UI looks uglier too.
There's a lot of cool Monero people out there, most are not like that. It's the same for Bitcoiners and basically everything else.
And yes, it's important to keep in mind what really matters (about those matters) - and it's not bitcoin vs monero, it's bitcoin + monero.
By the way, criticize Monero all you want. As long as it's coming from a constructive place, it can be useful too. Lack of constructive criticism breeds complacency.