Leviticus 19:34 NRSVUE
[34] The alien who resides with you shall be to you as the native-born among you; you shall love the alien as yourself, for you were aliens in the land of Egypt: I am the Lord your God.
I have come to realize that people don't even notice any of the physical flaws that I think are obvious. And even when they do, they hardly think it's any big deal. It is the same for others, and I just don't notice or care. I wish more people would come to that realization, and we'd all love ourselves (and perhaps each other) a whole lot more.