Out of what does preferences of rest come from? You know if there's let's say rough sex and it comes out of some traumas in order to compensate. Does that mean that vanilla one is for people who have ...
I don't think I follow. But I would say that healthy sexuality generally does not include tying people up or slapping them around.
choking is interesting as when done correctly it actually produces a high. It's dangerous, but I think some people like to be choked just for the high.
But there is also a wide variation among humans. Not commonly but sometimes people just have pain and pleasure circuits that overlap, so that pain can be arousing.
It's complex. But I think if you could interview people who play BDSM "sub" in the bedroom, you'd find that nearly all of them have horrific back stories.
choking is interesting as when done correctly it actually produces a high. It's dangerous, but I think some people like to be choked just for the high.
But there is also a wide variation among humans. Not commonly but sometimes people just have pain and pleasure circuits that overlap, so that pain can be arousing.
It's complex. But I think if you could interview people who play BDSM "sub" in the bedroom, you'd find that nearly all of them have horrific back stories.