Is Primal Premium worth it? What are peoples' preferred ways of using nostr and managing content and lightning liquidity? #asknostr

Ive been using Nostrudel, albyhub, and a nostr.build account. I can see the benefits of Primal but the trade off seems to be that it is just not self-hosted, also seems very X-like. I like the Nostrudel client because it is kinda different from X and has all kinds of stuff to click on but it's not good on the follows as notifications tho it seems to have gotten better with the general notifications, so I end up checking primal too for that. Just curious what options people go with.