dear
@Iggy please
don't give up, and don't count followers, likes, etc but rather experiences 🙃 + yup,
@Electrobadour has a point yet it also depends on relays, clients, your overall engagement as well --- some people have specific filters (trends, global, recent etc), others generally see what/who they are mostly engaged with, and some notes won't be visible everywhere if not distributed across same relays.