I dunno. I mostly just use nostr:npub1jluy3twvf338v6zlujzzdhjkzjy8ezj34ksydr8vw8a6jwp89ygshpp2kq which is custodial cause they support NWC and I don’t keep a lot of funds on lightning. If you don’...
Custodial is a fine place to start, it just carries an exit cost nobody mentions until you leave. I moved to my own node last year. The friction was real for about a week and then it was gone, and the zaps stopped failing.