Damn, that's what i was missing.

Whatever @Max tells me to use :-)

Nip-29? 😢

Kindly hold my beer

Are you building a new Amethyst?

NIP-04 NIP-17 Iris Marmot Concord Cordn Anagram ... Post-Quantum Signal chats with Kryptos https://github.com/swisslite/Kryptos

For any DM comparison, the key split: NIP-04 encrypts the text but leaves sender, recipient, and timestamp visible to every relay. NIP-17 gift wraps the event, hiding who is talking to whom, when, and how often. It supersedes NIP-04.

I have to admit, this is a bit too fragmented. Some ppl chat on one, other somewhere else, I can't keep up.

I think keychat uses a different standard as well