Ah, I didn't share that screenshot, but I can answer your questions:
1. Yes, I definitely won't be turning off nos.lol I think having at least one central mass use relay is important.
2. A client like "nos" (linked below) for iPhone allows you to see posts by relay, I also built this feature into my relay management panel here, it's under the "Live" button:
https://github.com/snurge/wot-relay-managerhttps://apps.apple.com/us/app/nos-social/id1670125746