Hello, my name's Mike and I built my own WoT relay and web management panel and I know less about relays now than I did before 😂

Relay experts, should I keep a large centralised relay in my config?

I removed the Damus relay and I'm about to retire the nostr.wine

I seem to have more fragmented notifications than ever and I notice a lot of people who would normally reply to me are not.

HELP!!!!!!! 😱