I am not disagreeing on the speed of options on NOSTR. Really cool stuff. I am just saying that most people who could care less who hosts their data are not going to spend the time learning.
I want ...
something to keep in mind, a strategic posture that gets around the "nobody cares where it's stored" thing. don't market your product as nostr-powered, except quietly in fine print and technical documents. they don't care. focus that energy on what they do care about.