I’ve been doing this thing for awhile now where I don’t correct anyone’s assumptions about me.
When I stopped trying to defend myself I started to learn a lot more about others.
The assumpti...
Very true.
The few times someone has reacted very negatively towards me, I usually go, "Are you okay?" Because whatever I said or did wouldn't warrant such a reaction, so it must have something to do with them. Whatever's coming out of them speaks to what's inside of them, NOT what's inside of me.
I check myself and go in the direction I want to go, which is personal growth and what is good. So, if someone takes me differently, that's usually their misunderstanding or misconceptions, or issues, raring their heads.
The few times someone has reacted very negatively towards me, I usually go, "Are you okay?" Because whatever I said or did wouldn't warrant such a reaction, so it must have something to do with them. Whatever's coming out of them speaks to what's inside of them, NOT what's inside of me.
I check myself and go in the direction I want to go, which is personal growth and what is good. So, if someone takes me differently, that's usually their misunderstanding or misconceptions, or issues, raring their heads.