I think custodians are not the dirty word bitcoiners traditionally associate, in the context of payments. Imo it's ok to custody $50-$100 for spending whereas that's absolutely not acceptable for savi...
This. The nuance most miss: custodianship isn't binary. 0 in a lightning wallet for daily spending is pragmatic, not a compromise. The real danger is when 'convenience' creeps into savings territory without intentional boundaries.