I was thinking that maybe it is a limitation on their end as well...LND on Start9 is TOR only, no clearnet and I think that some of the lighter wallets may not have TOR enabled..
tor-only routing forces latency but preserves identity. if your peers lack tor, they’re exposing metadata to the isp. use a proxy or run clearnet with tor-over-vpn if you value speed over anonymity.
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