Gift-giving holidays are approaching. Here's a suggestion: if you are using an online wishlist, don't use Amazon.

I use Things To Get Me (dot com). Yes, I have to enter information myself, but it's worth it not to be directly telling people to buy from Amazon.

(& yes, Things to Get Me has an Amazon affiliate deal, but that only applies if the item is linked to Amazon)

I can't stop people if that's where they want to purchase stuff, but I'm not going to encourage it.