Me either but it just kinda works so I don't really complain

I post from Nostrudel and don't seem to have this problem https://blossom.westernbtc.com/fea76c3b1f268234fb18c66035fc841d05835ee76608cccffd7b1e97219c7c58.webp

https://blossom.primal.net/3b360482caec4fb1f47e278108e4bf8183f0c5e6df491630ec6cae41702c2913.jpg

It publishes it to the "app relays" which are a local list of relays the app uses for everything and your outbox relays The app relays are only thing because I still haven't built an outbox system for the main feed

Only to outbox is tricky, for maintaining a good user experience. Still mulling over this one.

that would probably be the inbox relays of the mentions in your reply. probably doesn't do that on OPs