Phoenix can't be mentioned in the same sentence as the others. It's an actual self-custodial lightning wallet that works, seamlessly. "Outrageous fees": as an experiment, I went through my last 5 tran...
While I agree with you in principle, “the customer is always right”, and landing a perfect first-transaction UX is really important. Ultimately, today, I thing that means the only thing we can actually build that’s self-custodial (at least for the right balance) is a graduated wallet.