@nprofile1q... I did a 180 in writing this reply. I started with “Fuck it, I’ll judge for the both of us”. But the more I thought about it, the less that felt right. There are countless awesome single parent families. If they made this decision with a clear acceptance that she will be a single Mom, then that’s completely ok. I don’t judge women who choose to have a donor (spermbank etc) baby, so why here? Families come in many varieties. They get to enjoy their kiddo for hopefully a few years together and then she hopefully continues being an awesome single mom, or gets a new (hopefully good) partner.

Yip, total 180 and the above is preaching directly at my own closed minded gut reaction.