Yeah, I wanted to go the self-hosting route, but the current options are too burdensome; way too much administrative responsibility. So now I am waffling between 1Pass and Bitwarden.
I was with LastPass for over a decade. Made the switch to Proton Pass and I like it. Unlimited aliases means no one gets my real email except friends and family. Needs a CLI though. Would have preferred self-hosted but arrived at same conclusion you did.