Both of my boys had the same rough start. One for a week and the other 100 days in the NICU. Preeclampsia makes it scary for both your wife and child. You have to be strong and help them feel the love and strength you provide. I pray that your girls have a short stay in the hospital and you get to enjoy the beautiful times ahead. My first son is three now and you can't even tell he was premature. Things get better but time goes slow.