That reminds me of the dude saving a scorpion parable; the scorpion kept stinging him but he continued to save it from the perilous situation it was in. The observer kinda dumbfounded asks why?! So he responds that stinging is the scorpion's nature and saving it, was his. Stopping yourself from bei...

I understand you totally hey, but remember being kind doesn't mean you allow yourself to be used or abused. It just means you are always ready + willing to show kindness to anyone but wise enough to know when someone wants to use you. Discernment is always key and sometimes it's hard to notice the d...