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Can any medical professionals or paras out there tell me how to disassociate from the reality of dealing with my eighty-something parents and all their medical issues.

I'm not talking about shutting them out of denying them empathy or support. I mean how do I stop it from wearing me down. I've been at it 24 hours a day for almost three weeks and I'm not sure I can deal with it much longer.

We're starting conversations about care facilities but I'm not sure I will last that long.

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Fox [אΩ] · 1w

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🏴‍☠️CoramDeo🏴‍☠️ · 1w

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Viscountess Love & Light · 1w

nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyd968gmewwp6kyqpq3kte5m2x6nqyg66sljddpcx6ymerr7n4z4kqsqsnqpsty7s6dzjsydjejv the sweet spot for me has been: * remind myself I can't control them or fix most of their problems * Most of the time they don't want me to, but they do want to tell me all about it * Zo...

Viscountess Love & Light · 1w

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Chromeratt · 1w

Thanks everyone for the input. I appreciate the ideas and well wishes. And especially the "love and light ©"

Soul Dessin · 1w

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