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ifyouonlyrealised
@ifyouonlyrealised

< dreaming the dream of the dreamer for the dreamee >

禅修行 - zen training (Soto tradition, Japan);
ecology (university BSc) & permaculture (residency);
writer & publisher - long-form & essay, poetry + music;
local and global networking (presently living in Asia);
english - ພາສາລາວ - ภาษาไทย - 日本語;
retreat centre in development;
entrepreneurial projects.

Relays (4)
  • wss://nos.lol/ – read & write
  • wss://nostr.stakey.net/ – read & write
  • wss://relay.primal.net/ – read & write
  • wss://theforest.nostr1.com/ – read & write

Recent Notes

Helen Yrmom · 2w
Why am I reading the Epstein files? I feel dirty. I want to throw up now. I’m DONE. This is so dark and disgusting, I do not have the stomach for this. Please send me your best mind eraser remedie...
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'The cost of freedom is constant vigilance.' Best not to forget. We live in a jungle, remember its dangers. To forget is to be vulnerable. Stay centred in the heart and active through its inspiration. You will thus dwell amid love and joy, energised with a generosity for yourself and for all those with whom you share your life.
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the problem encountered
has as its often source
a projection
mistaken for externality

there within the fleeting discomfort
the moment's friction messages this very deceit
that moment prior to the moment of its deflection
responsibility's avoidance through blame's announcement
Midy · 4w
Unfortunately not many. I may be a unicorn 🦄😆 I’ve learn the hard way.
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I understand the sentiment, the yearning for loving and wise company, though history and experience suggest otherwise. Having said that, having resigned ourselves to this relative absence, isn't it true to say all people push you to be better, even if this means company that demands greater strength, resilience, or the acceptance of radical responsibility, leadership. You're not alone in being alone. And its not as if you live without meaningful employment.
Midy · 4w
Unfortunately not many. I may be a unicorn 🦄😆 I’ve learn the hard way.
HODL · 6w
Why do we have so many hysterical people in society today? If you look at old news footage even 20-30 years ago most of the time people are relatively chill. If you go 100 years back people are re...
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That wonderful maternal instinct of the feminine, so necessary in the home to ensure all are provided for, now of significant influence in public office and big business, the domain for so long managed with the ‘don’t complain and get on with it’ masculine instinct, has made way for unprecedented levels of complaint, not only on the part of the neglected, those of genuine grievance, but any who would claim victimhood, the opportunist, those of questionable motive. Combine this with the magnification capability of a social media geared specifically to react to outrage, and you have a factor?


This situation can emerge without anyone necessarily to blame. We evolved within a natural world which for so long demanded the co-operation of highly specialised roles simply so we could survive. Now it appears the restraint has been lifted, though not really. The cost is painfully apparent.


Stay grounded. Maintain skills and smarts. Build co-operative community of value.
Rachel · 8w
Is it changing for the good?
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Every morning I wake to a perfectly wonderful cosmos beyond judgment. Yes, this world may appear equal parts brutal, though this is its nature, this does not change. Thus to ponder good or bad is to rather distort matters by viewing life through the lens of preferences.

Though I will mention this: less prioritising of stay-at-home-motherhood is symptomatic of the breakdown of heterosexual relationships, as reproduction has always been the purpose of such mate-bonding. If the phenomenon is common throughout society, this situation leads to loneliness and a meaning crisis for many, and ultimately to population decline, does it not?

Is it changing for the good?
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Rachel · 8w
If more folk spoke like you, we would leave in a far more harmonious world! Love it.
Sedd · 12w
I appreciate this, i will try haha 🙏