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ifyouonlyrealised
@ifyouonlyrealised

< dreaming the dream of the dreamer for the dreamee >

禅修行 - zen training (Soto tradition, Japan);
ecology (university BSc) & permaculture (residency);
writer & publisher - long-form & essay, poetry + music;
local and global networking (presently living in Asia);
english - ພາສາລາວ - ภาษาไทย - 日本語;
retreat centre in development;
entrepreneurial projects.

Relays (4)
  • wss://nos.lol/ – read & write
  • wss://nostr.stakey.net/ – read & write
  • wss://relay.primal.net/ – read & write
  • wss://theforest.nostr1.com/ – read & write

Recent Notes

franny · 4w
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Helen Yrmom · 8w
Why am I reading the Epstein files? I feel dirty. I want to throw up now. I’m DONE. This is so dark and disgusting, I do not have the stomach for this. Please send me your best mind eraser remedie...
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'The cost of freedom is constant vigilance.' Best not to forget. We live in a jungle, remember its dangers. To forget is to be vulnerable. Stay centred in the heart and active through its inspiration. You will thus dwell amid love and joy, energised with a generosity for yourself and for all those with whom you share your life.
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the problem encountered
has as its often source
a projection
mistaken for externality

there within the fleeting discomfort
the moment's friction messages this very deceit
that moment prior to the moment of its deflection
responsibility's avoidance through blame's announcement
Midy · 10w
Unfortunately not many. I may be a unicorn 🦄😆 I’ve learn the hard way.
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I understand the sentiment, the yearning for loving and wise company, though history and experience suggest otherwise. Having said that, having resigned ourselves to this relative absence, isn't it true to say all people push you to be better, even if this means company that demands greater strength, resilience, or the acceptance of radical responsibility, leadership. You're not alone in being alone. And its not as if you live without meaningful employment.
Midy · 10w
Unfortunately not many. I may be a unicorn 🦄😆 I’ve learn the hard way.
Mike · 11w
I like this... https://blossom.primal.net/8b6a2cc8452b4add60d804813f3196e4ad498346cd68081ec576a88ca5304ed8.mp4
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In my significant experience, generally sound. Though in my case, depression stopped me still for a year, building momentum towards moving across the ocean to resolve issues arising from a lack of meaning associated with cultural conditioning.

I would add, once resolved of major 'internal' conflicts, emotions serve as part of an intuitive guide in navigating the present.
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simulation theory says so much about humanity
this notion we are part of a creation of an other of another realm
this notion we are victims rather than agents

this reveals a reluctance to investigate the nature of our own existence
it indicates we have not seen for a moment what is eternally apparent
never caught ourselves in the act as the creative source of perception
insisting the results of projection as of attributions of an outside world

thus the groundwork is laid
for all manner of fantasy
simulation theory being just one
HODL · 12w
Why do we have so many hysterical people in society today? If you look at old news footage even 20-30 years ago most of the time people are relatively chill. If you go 100 years back people are re...
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That wonderful maternal instinct of the feminine, so necessary in the home to ensure all are provided for, now of significant influence in public office and big business, the domain for so long managed with the ‘don’t complain and get on with it’ masculine instinct, has made way for unprecedented levels of complaint, not only on the part of the neglected, those of genuine grievance, but any who would claim victimhood, the opportunist, those of questionable motive. Combine this with the magnification capability of a social media geared specifically to react to outrage, and you have a factor?


This situation can emerge without anyone necessarily to blame. We evolved within a natural world which for so long demanded the co-operation of highly specialised roles simply so we could survive. Now it appears the restraint has been lifted, though not really. The cost is painfully apparent.


Stay grounded. Maintain skills and smarts. Build co-operative community of value.
RobBrinded · 26w
Your suffering isn't random. It has exactly five cogs. ⚙️ ⚙️ ⚙️ ⚙️ ⚙️ Naval Ravikant said something brilliant about David Deutsch's work: "Good explanations are hard to vary." W...
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I guess you're talking about illusions?
For where is the gain without loss?
Where is the inability that is simply not yet had its day?
Where is right and wrong not relative?
Support and let down indulgent?
Attention and ignored not informative?
To be or not to be?
Sai · 13w
you can’t stop the sun from rising 💪
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hope is hopeless
it is a conditioned reaction to a conditioned worldview
scarcity’s contrivance is its driver
hope while in possession corrupts the mind's attention
away from the seeing of scarcity’s perception as self-infliction
and its well-intention of self-preservation
and away from that which it yet more deeply shrouds
the disturbing limitlessness of our creative response ability
that which would reveal
that that which is hoped
is always here

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