Better to be confused but informed than a blind sheep. Truth takes time and effort to uncover.

If one position is really better than the other, it will not lead to both-sidism. And it will leave you better off, since after you pick a side, you know exactly how the other side thinks.

Not if your time is limited

If you go that long without updating, I think that is to be expected. It's hard to make everything backwards compatible forever.

Export database as a json using one of the devices (browser extension or app), completely reinstall the bitwarden server, clearing its database.

I also recommend using vaultwaden instead bitwarden server.

If you want something even more based and simpler: keepass + syncthing

The question is why are you unhappy

Ironfox on mobile

I rebroadcasted before. If that still does not work, add the wss://relay.momostr.pink/ relay

It's right there in the note that I originally quoted. Are you intentionally missing it just for trolling or does it not show in your nostr client?