Thinking about it more like attending a large event is a good way to go about this. You don't show up with a bullhorn trying to meet and talk to everyone. You mingle and find the people that are interesting, develop a rapport and follow them. You keep mingling (commenting etc.) and meeting new people, some will introduce you to other people and that is the way it works. At least in my brain that seems to be the way to think about this protocol. I personally don't much care for social media, but I do love Nostr, because it is genuine people (mostly) that are interested in connecting and having a free exchange of ideas. It's a wonderful thing. Then again we do have some people like
@Permanerd 🌱 💻 trying to feed me mushrooms... lol. I kid, he's a great guy imho.