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I think as a dude you should keep a couple of female friends around.
I've always f...
I've heard from a shrink (fair to criticize, but not wrong here, IMO) there's no such thing as man-woman friendships where at least one isn't attracted to the other.
I did (& allowed with exes) the opp. sex "friend" thing in my youth, but it's really true & doesn't work if you want to be serious.
That said, this bitch isn't serious & he needs "friends" stat, lol.
I did (& allowed with exes) the opp. sex "friend" thing in my youth, but it's really true & doesn't work if you want to be serious.
That said, this bitch isn't serious & he needs "friends" stat, lol.
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Dude should form some "emotional attachments" elsewhere & go from there.
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Sooo true. My horseback ride 2 wks ago set me totally straight.
Sometimes just barefoot in grass 10-15 min. helps. Follow me for more hippie bullshit tips, lol.
Sometimes just barefoot in grass 10-15 min. helps. Follow me for more hippie bullshit tips, lol.
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I shouldn't "gender-ize" it, lol... I have a brother who battles anxiety, too, but it is true women often suffer more due to less compartmentalized thoughts.
Yeah, it's probably worth a kidney, maybe even gallbladder, to appease.
Yeah, it's probably worth a kidney, maybe even gallbladder, to appease.
I love that you just mentioned COMT. Our MTHFR & DAO, plus GAD(?), etc, pathways, can all play into anxiety.
Too much folic acid in wheat & processed foods is enough to tip many of us.
I feel your p...
...my husband is annoyingly sane ALMOST all of the time, which is partially owed also to male single-focus vs women thinking all the things all the time... But find a sane accountability partner if you can, lol. A sounding board & also someone to tell you you're gonna be OK :blobheartcat:
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Where you can do take ...
I love that you just mentioned COMT. Our MTHFR & DAO, plus GAD(?), etc, pathways, can all play into anxiety.
Too much folic acid in wheat & processed foods is enough to tip many of us.
I feel your pain, Myshkin... came close to my 1st panic attack this week w/real estate crap, but I settled for hot mess anxiety 😆 Crazies unite 💪💪
Too much folic acid in wheat & processed foods is enough to tip many of us.
I feel your pain, Myshkin... came close to my 1st panic attack this week w/real estate crap, but I settled for hot mess anxiety 😆 Crazies unite 💪💪
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Renters semi-trashed our cabin & I needed help, since 60 mi away with toddlers, etc...
Can't help but think the boss babe, single-mom cleaner hangs up towels like a vag, though 🧐 Humor me... only comic relief in my week.
Can't help but think the boss babe, single-mom cleaner hangs up towels like a vag, though 🧐 Humor me... only comic relief in my week.
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Finally met a plumber today I've been talking to for years on a project.
YUGE behemoth of a man, no less than 6'6," probably, not obese at all, but kinda chunky... just a big dude. Clean cut, besides a few tats. Really nice, had thought him best of subcontractors I dealt with by far, & using him for anything in future.
Well, apparently he said he almost always wears pants to work, but I caught him on a rare day of shorts... faded (attempted removal) swasi on his right calf.
"Hey, that's great," I said, & he started falling all over himself saying he was young & dumb, & had already covered the left leg up...
"No, I'm serious... good for you, it needs to come back." He eventually accepted I wasn't being facetious. Hope I made him feel like he can wear shorts again because big people seem to sweat a lot 😆 :spinstika:
YUGE behemoth of a man, no less than 6'6," probably, not obese at all, but kinda chunky... just a big dude. Clean cut, besides a few tats. Really nice, had thought him best of subcontractors I dealt with by far, & using him for anything in future.
Well, apparently he said he almost always wears pants to work, but I caught him on a rare day of shorts... faded (attempted removal) swasi on his right calf.
"Hey, that's great," I said, & he started falling all over himself saying he was young & dumb, & had already covered the left leg up...
"No, I'm serious... good for you, it needs to come back." He eventually accepted I wasn't being facetious. Hope I made him feel like he can wear shorts again because big people seem to sweat a lot 😆 :spinstika:
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Richard was actually a decent looking dude. Tall and strong looking. I think he could have done a lot better with women if he wasn't raging all the time.
Not ugly, no. I could probably see the Fin in him & I'm never attracted to my own peeps, though 😆 #crossingponds
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I had a soft spot for Richard. A lot of people thought he was too broken, but I thought he could be salvaged, and maybe he could have been if he had lived. He was brilliant in a misanthropic sort of w...
Same. Not in appearance, but he was otherwise much like my ex before hubs.
Sometimes they can't be saved, but there's an underlying idealism to their "broken" a few of us can see.
Sometimes they can't be saved, but there's an underlying idealism to their "broken" a few of us can see.
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Not sure what to make of that considering that Richard was a world class woman disrespecter. I'm not really like that. With me it's just the standard love/hate, but slightly more love perspective that...
He was an everyone disrespecter on a bad day, lol, but he was never super convincing about his woman schtick, imo.
Overly sensitive, heart broke one too many times... familiar "chauvinist" story.
Overly sensitive, heart broke one too many times... familiar "chauvinist" story.
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