Have you though about that you might be the one in self-deception? Bitcoin is defending against you. It will be a brutal self-realization if you manage to see clearly.
Well, isn't the lightning on the main chain unaffected? Lightning settles to the main chain, which keeps producing ~10-minute blocks with massive hash rate behind it. A starving minority fork doesn't disrupt that.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion on the subject. You do you. For me, after analyzing both sides the current BIP-110 thing is a danger to Bitcoin.