Dreiberge
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I hate situations where I have to deal with salespeople! After recently having to drag myself to various car dealerships, today I had an appointment for a saddle consultation.
I don’t even know why ...
I am a people pleaser extraordinaire. For me it's a safety mechanism. It definitely made a sales experience hard. Because I do not find boundaries easy at all. It's not that I am unable to say no(t yet). I just don't enjoy it.
I really came to see this aspect of myself when I worked as salesman. I didn't really like it at first from the other side either because I felt like I was doing to someone something that I didn't like to have done to me.
But the real change for me came when I realized that people pleasing is kind of a costume I wear to make myself feel secure. Psychology people call it a mask.
That realization has cost me years of my life unwinding it. But for me, that released an enormous part of that tension and continues to.
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