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Noshole · 14h
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Yarnlady 🧶 · 1d
But a phoenix rising from the ashes 🐦‍🔥
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Is there a way that I can join you in solidarity and support but stay my perfectly happy frump self at the same time?

I'm kind of the more mid-aged masculine themed, cargo shorts and t-shirts frump.
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Kip Ashlynn · 1d
I don't see why not. Maybe pick one easy way to add a little sparkle and style to the cargo pants 🥰
Dreiberge · 1d
I hate situations where I have to deal with salespeople! After recently having to drag myself to various car dealerships, today I had an appointment for a saddle consultation. I don’t even know why ...
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I am a people pleaser extraordinaire. For me it's a safety mechanism. It definitely made a sales experience hard. Because I do not find boundaries easy at all. It's not that I am unable to say no(t yet). I just don't enjoy it.

I really came to see this aspect of myself when I worked as salesman. I didn't really like it at first from the other side either because I felt like I was doing to someone something that I didn't like to have done to me.

But the real change for me came when I realized that people pleasing is kind of a costume I wear to make myself feel secure. Psychology people call it a mask.

That realization has cost me years of my life unwinding it. But for me, that released an enormous part of that tension and continues to.
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Tauri | Bitcoin (XBT) · 2d
Basically JewCoin, or BankersCoin.
mleku · 2d
bitcohen. as in cohen. a very common hebrew name. like leonard cohen.
Matt · 3d
Just trying with an idea. I see most people setting their clients up to strip meta data from image and video uploads, which seems smart. However, I'd like to be able to actually share that info some...
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I think I'm so leaky already that for me the safest route is just never share meta data.

But I totally think the idea has merit. I think I would just want to be able to click a box that makes me feel pretty certain that I'm stripping it all the time no matter what.

But I think it's a pretty good idea and it gives you something you can build other things on like you could have a feature that showed you pictures taken from around your current location. (maybe this already exists.)
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