Husbands need to find a male support system - This could be a group of old friends or text group with dads of other kids.

It is vital that these men be in a similar family life stage as you - wife, kids age - but can have varying income or professional successes.

Gaining their trust and support may take time but having men to bounce questions is a great benefit to your personal journey of Responsibility and Leadership

#Responsibility #Leadership

Sunday is winding down.

How will you do better this week than you did last week?

#Responsibility #Leadership

Luxury and expectations increase each other in a cycle.

Any new luxury soon becomes an expectation.
Then requests for bigger luxuries arise.

Your own bedroom was once a luxury.
Your own apartment was once a luxury.
Now you want a home with five acres.

A husband who washes laundry is a luxury.
A husband who does dishes is a luxury.
Now she wants ???

#women #relationships

Women want to take care of men they are attracted to.

Women are not attracted to men that they NEED to take care of.

Want her to behave differently toward you?

Take responsibility for yourself and stop acting like another child she needs to take care of.

#responsibility #attraction

Tone matters.

You can say “You are an impatient child” two different ways.

One way will make you sound like a jerk.

Another way will make her putty your hand.

#attraction #women

To be fulfilled your wife needs both her Yin and Yang attended to.

Yin, feminine - Snuggle & breakfast in bed

Yang, masculine - Tied up and treated like a ragdoll

Filling both of these cups will help ease her neurotic energy and allow her to follow your leadership.

#women #leadership

She is an emotional child

Your wife is sick and tired of making decisions.

Make a choice & tell her the plan - but don't be overly commited to your plan if she has an alternate opinion.

Lead the way by starting the conversation with purpose and not starting it with a question.

#leadership #women

Maintaining attraction is vital to the longterm success of your marriage.

The catch is, attraction is not a choice - but it can be influenced.

She is no longer attracted to boys - she wants to feel safe, secure, and take care of.

#leadership #attraction

Taking care of yourself sets the standard for - and makes you the leader of - your family.

• Sleep Well
• Wake Up Early
• Exercise Your Body
• Eat Healthy
• Regulate Emotions
• Set & Attain Goals
• Rise From Failure
• Extreme Responsibility
• Love Your Family

#leadership #responsibility

If the trust jar is low, there is no grand gesture that is going to suddenly make things right.

Start with getting yourself organized, cleaning up your physical space, getting a plan in place, and taking consistent daily actions.

Showing up for her everyday is what rebuilds trust.

Trust will put her at ease.

#responsibility #relationships