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Your wife is sick and tired of making decisions.

Make a choice & tell her the plan - but don't be overly commited to your plan if she has an alternate opinion.

Lead the way by starting the conversation with purpose and not starting it with a question.

#leadership #women
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Maintaining attraction is vital to the longterm success of your marriage.

The catch is, attraction is not a choice - but it can be influenced.

She is no longer attracted to boys - she wants to feel safe, secure, and take care of.

#leadership #attraction
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Taking care of yourself sets the standard for - and makes you the leader of - your family.

• Sleep Well
• Wake Up Early
• Exercise Your Body
• Eat Healthy
• Regulate Emotions
• Set & Attain Goals
• Rise From Failure
• Extreme Responsibility
• Love Your Family

#leadership #responsibility
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If the trust jar is low, there is no grand gesture that is going to suddenly make things right.

Start with getting yourself organized, cleaning up your physical space, getting a plan in place, and taking consistent daily actions.

Showing up for her everyday is what rebuilds trust.

Trust will put her at ease.

#responsibility #relationships
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Do not complain to her about your life unless you have a solution. She does not want to see you acting weak or hear your whining.

While she might want to be there for you, her attraction towards you will plummet. It is out of her control.

Lead and take action.

#women #leadership
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She is bored, sitting on the couch, scrolling through her phone, zoned out, wishing for something.

Take the phone out of her hand, set
it on the table, and lead her to the bedroom.

Timing matters.

#attraction #leadership
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As a relationship progresses, a sane woman moves from wanting excitement to wanting stability, with a little excitement.

The man’s behavior will shift to match this over time. The more Responsibility the man assumes, the more mental space is freed for the woman, the more she can be available for her man.

#relationships #responsibility