I love each of them in their own way, but also continuously building on its own

Not just the trilogy, the whole series

I recommend it 🤓

I recommend you read The Will to Power by Nietsche, to get a better grasp on what concepts like good and bad and luck represent.
It will be easier to read it from a outspoken nihilist like Nietsche since you don't like what you call new ageism.

You are responsible for your own feelings in this existence, but that doesn't mean you are alone in what you experience. You don't know how bad someone else had it so it's no use to compare. The nature of the lesson is universal.

You mistake the physical for absolute reality; probably because it is impressively congruent, so you think of course materialism must be more real, but it is a mere construct. You have no proof, but you treat it as if you do. Embrace the uncertainty to end your ideological state.

Or, go ahead, and accept your fate to be the victim.

This is the role of the victim, I'm sorry you identify with it. You will suffer until you feel that you can be grateful to be taught.

You can create a dogma and call it new ageism, but you yourself are responsible for what you feel.

Trauma is to identify with what is done to you, it is suffering. Pain is inevitable, suffering is not. To turn reaction from trauma into response is the process of letting go. Yes you can do that, unless you are stuck and clinging. It is simple and universal, but very hard and yes it takes time.

It's merely an umbrella term for the metaphysical inheritance we share, call it trauma, ideology, conditioning, collective constructs, consensus of ideas, it doesn't matter. It is of this plane of existence and we must let it go.

It is all so overwhelmingly congruent that we perceive it as matter of fact, but there is no other, so there is no guilt, and the trauma is a filter without which we can do.