@I <3 finngolian hapa pussy It's 1. I read the first paragraphs and they were dumb enough for me to respond. Besides, it's not a topic that's exclusive to Christianity. I personally draw the line between imagination, fantasy and actual body counts.
As for 2, hopefully some. You need to have a sense of dignity as a man, too. It's not just for women. I fell for it once, that was enough. It's why strictly virgin is not on my preference list for women.