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figuring it all out

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Recent Notes

Gary · 82w
I can already assure their parents that the dating pool knows how to: 1. shoot a gun 2. plant a garden (or have the likely interest in figuring it out) 3. fundamentals of economics 4. do 100 pushups and 100 pullups 5. ... wow, seems like a home run
Laeserin · 82w
Fr fr no cap. Look at all the nice men working with me! 🤩 So smart and fun, protective, and gentle with women. It's like an engineering office. Quality 🤌🏻
mleku · 82w
well, your observation about service staff totally makes sense, and for those whose job tends to mean zero getting hit on that gives me an edge i've worked with cleaning ladies (i was a cleaner), and...
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Gary @Gary
do you have any age range, like are you wanting to have kids, or you just want a partner.

how do you know you would find someone whose an intellectual match .

this is making me think of Pearl S Buck, "THe GOod Earth" for some reason. I've got to look that up again. It's all about coupleship and changing fortunes affect it.
mleku · 82w
yeah, i want a fertile woman, i have no kids, want to have a family people who work in manual labor jobs aren't necessarily stupid, i know this for a fact as i spent a year doing this kind of labor, and i don't think i'm stupid but i don't need a galaxy brain, just not a mainstream media drone, th...
kidwarp · 82w
Definitely not Walmart
Laeserin · 82w
You will also just be stuck competing with their male customers forever. Hence the divorce rates by female profession. They tend to have churn. And since those are the women men see the most often, they assume all women are like that.
mleku · 82w
see, painting this as being all about "men" and "women" misses the real content of the story most of the whores are spoiled brats used to getting whatever tehy want if they pout and flutter their eye...
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Gary @Gary
I like your reframing.

We have swallowed the "sex-positivity","you can have it all" vibe for too long.

I do think there are still a lot of people finding each other by the number of hand-holding that I see walking around.

And it's about the cars too:
guy in BMW: red flag.
guy in F150/ Honda Accord-- could go either way, leans positive
Guy in Toyota Corolla, Prius. if he's not a delivery driver -- grab him. clearly doesn't have issues.

I think it's important to be philosophising and shitposting while you're waiting for God.
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mleku · 82w
see, painting this as being all about "men" and "women" misses the real content of the story most of the whores are spoiled brats used to getting whatever tehy want if they pout and flutter their eyelids or hold their breath or something the guys who get these whores are those type that strut arou...
Laeserin · 82w
Most women avoid men like that. Likewise, such men avoid us. That's probably why we don't get hit on often. Some women like it, yes. 🤷‍♀️
Laeserin · 82w
There seems to be a connection to womens' jobs. Any woman who works close to the public, like in sales, waitressing, nursing, cashiering, etc. will get hit on a lot just because of the amount of men she's exposed to and her need to be friendly. They talk to dozens or hundreds of men every day and sm...
The Beave · 82w
Tinder was awful. I'd have to be very gay to date my coworkers. (I'm a welder. Ain't no girl 'round here. Lol!)
Laeserin · 82w
Can meet more marriageable guys here in 5 minutes than in 5 days on Tinder.
Laeserin · 82w
There's hardly anyone good at development. Make computer science a niche nerd thing, again.
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Gary @Gary
every other coder who looks at someone else's code always rolls their eyes and says how horrible it is.
i say:
1. everyone can sing ( Florence Foster Jenkins (film) - Wikipedia)
2. everyone can code
3. everyone can be a supermodel

the audience for each may change.

a project that has a bad coder who is really motivated to learn will be better served than a project that has a master coder who is bored.
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Laeserin · 82w
There's a difference between a junior coders and a bad one. The former has talent.
kidwarp · 83w
No that’s everyone that attends the conference…